OkCupid Reviews

ReginaldSteeves

October 29, 2020

“It is free becausr you get to talk to your matches without paying. Those likes are in the deck you swipe through. So you CAN and WILL see likes eventually. I made a review on the site. I have paid for likes in the past. My full review will be released within 48hrs. Check it out! And all the best to you.”

KayCollins

April 20, 2020

“It's good only if you absolutely feel the need to burn your money and time! Seriously speaking, don't repeat my mistake! I had wasted plenty of time and emotions there trying to find a gem among rubbish. Just go to a decent and efficient site with good reputation and you will have plenty of choice there as long as you are a normal and adequate person. I'm using https://j4l.com/402007 and I'm content with it. I found several ladies that I really like, I had meetings with them and now its the time to choose for me!”

CoryOliver

January 07, 2020

“This answer varies with other sites, so i won't speak to those. But as far as my experience with OKCUPID (fifteen years). They answer is yes they do. Not EVERYONE is hunting for a spouse. The current options on OKC are: Hookups, New Friends, Short Term, Long Term. You also can selected if you prefer monogamy or ethical non-monogamy. (There are a LOT of men and women that understand that monogamy is a failed paradigm to expect everyone to adhere to, its not one size fits all. If it was, there would be very few cheaters.) I have found what people select (casual, short term, long term) doesnt really matter. Relationships will naturally seek their logical state. If you meet a girl looking for a hookup and you both have OMFG chemistry, why would you never call her again? That actually happened to me. I met a younger woman stating she ONLY was interested in a summer fling because she would be returning to college in September. It started as casual sex in July, but when when September came we wanted to continue seeing each other. And in the Spring we both realized we had fallen in love almost instantly, we were holding back because we were trying to enforce the HOOKUP paradigm. Most women (and i assume men?) that think they want monogamy will state that in their profile and will ask you your intentions when you start chatting. If you say anything other than "i am monogamous and am only interested in serious relationships" they will tell you goodbye. This is coercion. You have to agree to a committed monogamous relationship with a total stranger... BEFORE YOU EVEN MEET. Take a moment and forget how you have been programmed by society and read the last sentence again and ask yourself if that seems reasonable. But if everyone is demanding it, then everyone thinks its normal and reasonable. I was 40 before i discovered that there are "normal" people that understand humans are not inherently monogamous, society and religion force it upon us and shame us if we aren't in compliance. What happens is that lying, cheating, and betrayal have become normalized, whereas honesty and authenticity are punished. But to answer your question, on OKCUPID there are decent, attractive, fun, intelligent quality people seeking casual and long term relationships. Be honest in your profile and say that you are honest and value honesty in others, even if the truth isnt convenient. Don't say long term if you really want casual, there are other people also looking for casual.”

blackleopard701

July 30, 2019

“The best way to retrieve deleted messages from OKCupid is to contact the company help line as a kind of authority (INTERPOL, Police... ), else, deletion of messages from the personal user members area is dead and gone.”